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    Personal Growth

    Reflection And Self Awareness Finding Truth And Happiness After 50

    Before you can act, open yourself to opportunities and consider all the drivers and all the emotions in your life.

    Ask yourself this: When was the last time you sat down in a quiet place to think? Can’t remember? You’re not alone. In this busy world, reflection is a gift, and a needful one. Quiet and calm help you to slow down to take stock. Making time to reflect can open opportunities as you catch your breath, focus on your self-awareness and ask that vital but often-ignored question, “What’s next?”

    Heavy schedules and obligations can distract you from your best intentions. Emails, media noise, and always “doing” create heavy shoulders, tired eyes and habits that turn you from your purpose.

    But when you choose to reflect on the present, magic happens. You elevate your sense of self-awareness, find clarity about whom and what really matters, adjust your expectations of yourself and of others, and discover a more mindful approach to your life.

    Daily reflections help you to see opportunity, reminding you that you are in the midst of a process rather than “stuck” in a place, relationship or role. Reflection energizes your ability to feel, to look forward and to gain hope. Simple pleasures of walking in nature, sitting with a great listener, or writing down what your head is saying slows the pace and brings the present closer. From that vantage point, you can contemplate small steps or a comprehensive inventory of what you want.

    There are as many ways to reflect as there are facets in your life. Here are the big ones, and the questions you must ask yourself:

    Relationships: Who are your best friends? Who is in your blood and extended family? How are family, friends and colleagues nurturing or sapping your energy? Which social connections enrich you? Which connections would you like to deepen? What boundaries help you? What intimacy, encouragement and free time are you enjoying?

    Well-Being: What healthy habits do you practice? How can you put more fun into your fitness routines? What is your body telling you? Who are your well-being partners? Where does your encouragement come from?

    Work: Where are you at your best? When do you forget time? What would you do if you could not fail? Who has a work-life balance that you admire? What skills could you learn to enjoy work more? What do you enjoy about your manager? Who are your ideal colleagues?

    Finance and Wealth: What is it like to have enough? What is enough? How do you assess the balance between your financial inflow and outflow? As you consider future needs, what would you like more of?

    Recreation and Fun: What makes you laugh until tears come to your eyes? How is leisure expressed in your day? Who helps you feel alive?

    Whether your questions surround relationships, well-being or work, your yearning for more purpose and community can only be sated when you are able to pause and reflect. It’s a practice well worth the time.